53 lines
1.7 KiB
Markdown
53 lines
1.7 KiB
Markdown
- [ ] Hurts her feels when blow up on her
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- [ ] Don’t appreciate being blamed for decision I made
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- [ ] Asked if I could cut the grass
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- [ ] I could have said no
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- [ ] Very agitated about it put headphones in and walked away
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- [ ] Told I couldn’t hear then
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- [ ] Said kids even noticed I’m hot
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- [ ] No excuse for the way I treated her
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Suggest different time
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She had not heard that
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- [ ] Even if pushed to cut grass behaviour still isn’t acceptable
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- [ ] It degrades her self worth when this happens
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- [ ] Isn’t the first time it happens
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- [ ] Blow up and it sucks for her
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- [ ] Sad and unappreciated the last couple date nights planned by her
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- [ ] Hoping to feel valued and special
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- [ ] Wants to feel valued and worth while
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- [ ] Struggling and feel insignificant
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When she brings it up take a minute and step back. Not double down.
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Could have said “hey sorry I’m a little hot and annoyed” - helped end fight sooner
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Didn’t realize I was that frustrated until blow up happened
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Was looking for ownership. Yeah that sucked I shouldn’t have done that I’m really sorry.
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- [ ] Been blowing up a lot on her and kids
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- [ ] Keep an eye on it
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- [ ] Feels crappy and she is worried
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- [ ] Sucks enough for her but she is adult
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- [ ] Understand I’m not feeling my best but affects the children
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- [ ] Not fair to put that on them
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- [ ] Worried about them starting their day like that
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- [ ] Hectic in the morning and checkin to walk away
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- [ ] How we plan morning and waking up earlier? Less hectic and rushed
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- [ ] To help me??
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- [ ] Look at what we need to do to fix this
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#Christina |