42 lines
1.3 KiB
Markdown
42 lines
1.3 KiB
Markdown
Talking about July 8th and Friday Night
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- [ ] Small thing saying
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- [ ] Unfortunate how week turned out
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- [ ] Being tired
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- [ ] All things going on
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- [ ] Soccer games and practice
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- [ ] Groceries
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- [ ] Cast appointment
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- [ ] Wished acknowledged for how hard she works and what she does for our fam
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- [ ] Instead got defensive and commented on how
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- [ ] Really hard to talk to about anything
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- [ ] Think I look for what I do wrong and how I’m being blamed
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- [ ] When asked if she remembered if I asked if I did anything she said no
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- [ ] Tried to let me know what I said made her feel blamed
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- [ ] Turned into what I didn’t do wrong instead of listening
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Asked her why she was slamming doors and she took for an opportunity to share
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- [ ] Used I feel statements
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- [ ] I used opportunity to deflect and said I was being villianized
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Need to be able to share feelings and thoughts with me
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Think about her before responding how I feel
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Don’t need to respond to how she is feeling just don’t make it worse by deflecting
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Would have liked encouragement or listen and understand how she feels
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Exhausted
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Tired from kids during the week.
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Friday night:
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Standing at office doors
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Commented I know you and I know how you react when things don’t go the way you want
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Seemed like I was referencing the call to the clinic
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#Christina |