1.6 KiB
1.6 KiB
- Wanted to say thanks for taking ninja t the vet on Monday
- Feeling very overwhelmed so it was appreciated
- Not having to squeeze taking him into the vet before girl guides meeting
- Right now she is angry so many takes fall to her to handle
- She feels overwhelmed and needs help when we are going places
- She has made it really clear to me and asked for me to look for ways to help
- Asking what I can do when she is already busy doesn’t work for her
- Puts the mental load on her
- Pulls her out of what she is already doing
- She feels disrespected that I continue to ask what I can do to help her
- She feels sad, invisible and unappreciated by our family
- Appreciation of the little things she does for our family goes a long way
- It’s not licking her boots to say thank you
- She feels taken advantage of by me
- She feels like I have a lot of time to do the things I want to do and she is left to figure everything else out for the rest of the family
- She needs a partner that can help her shoulder the load and pick her up when she is struggling
- Right now she feels lonely and abandoned when she was struggling
Clarifying
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Did I tell the kids that I didn’t want to go on our trip
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Yes I did based on how things have been going around
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She doesn’t think it’s a fair convo to have with Alice
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The concept of it is not ok to have with the children
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Not fair to say with how absent I have been this week
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All the planning and organizing
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don’t like the way I say her name in conversations