- [ ] Wanted to say thanks for taking ninja t the vet on Monday 
- [ ] Feeling very overwhelmed so it was appreciated
- [ ] Not having to squeeze taking him into the vet before girl guides meeting
- [ ] Right now she is angry so many takes fall to her to handle
- [ ] She feels overwhelmed and needs help when we are going places
- [ ] She has made it really clear to me and asked for me to look for ways to help
- [ ] Asking what I can do when she is already busy doesn’t work for her
- [ ] Puts the mental load on her
- [ ] Pulls her out of what she is already doing
- [ ] She feels disrespected that I continue to ask what I can do to help her
- [ ] She feels sad, invisible and unappreciated by our family
- [ ] Appreciation of the little things she does for our family goes a long way
- [ ] It’s not licking her boots to say thank you
- [ ] She feels taken advantage of by me
- [ ] She feels like I have a lot of time to do the things I want to do and she is left to figure everything else out for the rest of the family
- [ ] She needs a partner that can help her shoulder the load and pick her up when she is struggling
- [ ] Right now she feels lonely and abandoned when she was struggling

Clarifying
- Did I tell the kids that I didn’t want to go on our trip
- Yes I did based on how things have been going around 
- She doesn’t think it’s a fair convo to have with Alice 
- The concept of it is not ok to have with the children
- Not fair to say with how absent I have been this week
- All the planning and organizing

- don’t like the way I say her name in conversations