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  • The way that Ive acted with her and the kids is not great
  • Been interrupted by me a lot lately
  • Not a deal breaker but still hurts when its happening as often as it has been
  • Interrupting her this morning making affirmations to what she was saying
  • Saying I am
  • She said it was making it was making her loose her train of thought
  • I deflected and said I thought she was asking a question
  • Hurts when trying to bring up something and dont take the time to listen and just respond
  • Lead to situations tonight
  • Saying something and looking to deflect
  • Twice in convo listening instead of reacting would have had different outcome

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  • Not taking the time to listen and responding tonight
  • Charlie didnt understand what I was saying it him and talking aggressively
  • Got deflected into what Charlie was doing and didnt respond to what she was saying to me
  • Twice it happened
  • Not great to talk to because she was concerned how I was talking to Charlie
  • He was confused
  • He didnt know what I wanted him to do
  • Sad and confused -———————————————————————

#Christina