- [ ] The way that I’ve acted with her and the kids is not great
- [ ] Been interrupted by me a lot lately 
- [ ] Not a deal breaker but still hurts when it’s happening as often as it has been
- [ ] Interrupting her this morning making affirmations to what she was saying
- [ ] Saying I am
- [ ] She said it was making it was making her loose her train of thought 
- [ ] I deflected and said I thought she was asking a question
- [ ] Hurts when trying to bring up something and don’t take the time to listen and just respond
- [ ] Lead to situations tonight 
- [ ] Saying something and looking to deflect
- [ ] Twice in convo listening instead of reacting would have had different outcome

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- [ ] Not taking the time to listen and responding tonight
- [ ] Charlie didn’t understand what I was saying it him and talking aggressively 
- [ ] Got deflected into what Charlie was doing and didn’t respond to what she was saying to me
- [ ] Twice it happened
- [ ] Not great to talk to because she was concerned how I was talking to Charlie
- [ ] He was confused
- [ ] He didn’t know what I wanted him to do
- [ ] Sad and confused
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