59 lines
2.2 KiB
Markdown
59 lines
2.2 KiB
Markdown
- [ ] Don’t think putting Charlie in his room just me is an option (if I’m laying down)
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- [ ] Instead have him out of his room and no rest
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- [ ] Scares and worries her that it will happen again
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- [ ] Disappointing I didn’t stand in office like I said I would
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- [ ] Upset because this isn’t the first time it has happened
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- [ ] If this was the first time it had happened she wouldn’t be so mad
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- [ ] She feels lied to because I said I would do something and I didn’t
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- [ ] Being your partner right now is really hard
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- [ ] Don’t feel like she can rely on me and it sucks
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- [ ] Kids have been hard but she can’t take a few hours for herself without being worries
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- [ ] Should not have had to worry about what was going on at home
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- [ ] Routinely checks cam at 3pm to make sure I’m doing my job
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- [ ] Haven’t made her feel confident she can take time for herself
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- [ ] Really angry and tired
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- [ ] Seems to be building for some time
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- [ ] Anger building towards me since sat
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- [ ] Tired for some time and has been building
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- [ ] Anger affecting how she feels about me as a partner and coparent
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- [ ] Based on severity and how it can’t happen again she thought I would put more effort into a plan to prevent
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- [ ] Charlie Stranded in room -
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- [ ] Ideas
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- [ ] Leave door cracked so he can leave
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- [ ] Don’t let him sleep and bring him down
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- [ ] Everything to Christina that children are safe and well cared for
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- [ ] Made her angry packaging up gifts yesterday it’s colouring perspective on how she views me
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Exhausting and makes her angry
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Doesn’t know where to go from here
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State of the union meeting but can’t trust I will do what I say I’ll do
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Doesn’t have partner to depend on… consistently
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Can empathize with how it feels like? No comment from me
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Don’t get the feeling that I’m taking it seriously or that I’m motivated to making her not feel this way
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Don’t feel like you can stay this way. Angry resentful
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Could care less about date nights right now, based on how angry she is
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**Needs have changed from wanting to be heard and no deflected on.**
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Question for Dianne <- what to do after being heard and listened to for person doing the listening
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#Christina |