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+- [ ] Feeling in a worse mental place than she was before I left for Texas
+- [ ] Exhausted, hurt and sad
+- [ ] Don’t feel like she gets the support she needs to fall apart
+- [ ] Sunday she couldn’t breath and was offered no support to get the kids lunch and to get to curling
+- [ ] Felt abandoned at dads when Alice was being a jerk and she realized I was awake and aware of what she was doing
+- [ ] She was not ok mentally but she feels like she is always the default
+- [ ] There was no conversation I just left and was unavailable
+- [ ] Don’t feel like she can drop any burdens bc she doesn’t know if I will be there to pick them up
+- [ ] She is angry and disappointed at how conversations went last time on Feb 2nd
+- [ ] The framework was not followed she let me know she was angry and upset
+- [ ] During that conversation and there was no acknowledgment of that
+- [ ] I put my feelings and emotions into what she was sharing, I interrupted her and we’re saying things she asked for would not be an effective solution
+- [ ] After she asked for what she thought would be a possible solution
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+She would have loved a few minutes to pull myself together but she feels if she doesn’t do things they don’t happen
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+Can solve not being the default by actually showing up
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+Doesn’t feel like she can miss anything or drop anything
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+I asked what possible solutions were and she let me know. 
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+She had to ask multiple times. Her being persistent to actually feel like I would look into it and do it
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+Was very defeating and very negative 
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+It really hurts when I say i don’t think it will work when I haven’t tried and we have the benefits to cover it
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+If it might help would have been great to not meet resistance and give it a try
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+Especially since I said months ago it was something I was going to do
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+Broaching subjects someone else has commented on
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+Wait a couple hours and then bring it up then
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+Do you have time to talk more about x then let them decide
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+No tips or tricks on how to handle sending her a message after she has been aggressive towards me or made me feel like crap
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+I need a min to collect myself can you step in or some other form of communication
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+Some phrase or something else that can be said to tap the other person in
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+If able message someone else to tap in or talk with Christina
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+Can tap in now or some other statement
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+Acknowledge what the other person has done (not used when Christina might be the one  making me feel a certain way)