1.6 KiB
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Written down
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Upset about convo saying not available for but didn’t check back in and was ok dropping it
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Wanting to check in before moving on
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Really hurt her with aggressive way I treated her
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Let me know I was talking to her aggressively and I deflected
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Here is what you do
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In your opinion statement was brought up from the day before
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Tried to bring it to my attention it was different
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I walked away and put my back to her to eat
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She brought it up I told her it wasn’t worth my time and wasn’t getting anything out of it
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Wasn’t ok to disrespect Christina
When I have messed up go to Christina and admit fault when I know I have
Hurts her when I talk about regular stuff when we are still fighting
- Don’t appreciate the aggressive way I can talk during convo and make very final statements
- It’s irrelevant I’m booking next date night
- It’s important to her and need me to listen to her
- Lead to a big argument
- It’s dismissive
- Not up to me to decide what’s relevant or not for her
Try and avoid making final statements in conversations
- Deflection when Lisa was here and I was interrupting her
- Instead of apologizing I deflecting saying I’m not the only one
- She actually apologized
- If she is bringing it up she doesn’t care what others are doing
- Matters what I’m doing
- Want to feel like I’m hearing her and owning my problems I’m causing
- Your right I am interrupting and I’m sorry
Take a breath next time to breath and come back with an apology or better answer
#Christina