1.6 KiB
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Continue to lash out and treat her is unacceptable
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Makes her feel really bad and
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To her feels like emotional abuse
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Like I become a diff person when I’m frustrated
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Want to do whatever I can to hurt her feelings
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It sucks
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It’s esp upsetting after it happens and I don’t acknowledge or apologize
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Makes her feel worthless
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If there are things I am frustrated about in relationship there are other avenues
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Don’t deflect and unload on you
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Would like me to never again refer to Al as your dad.
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Makes her feel like I’m going out of my way to hurt her
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Not the only reason she was upset
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Felt like she was mistreated and lashing out
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When she was letting me know she was being mistreated and I was emotionally abusive
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Instead of listening to hurt I was causing I deflected
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Asked if I was getting lumped in with Al
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Didn’t take a minute yo listen to what I was causing her to exp
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Attack mode immediately
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This whole convo was started bc she trying to explain how she was hurt from day before
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Just piles on
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Say that I’m sorry but then happens in same convo sometimes
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Also would like to read something to me about all the times deflecting
- Last weekend when there was a misunderstanding asking what was up
- I was agitated she apologized and said sorry
- I didn’t apologize back
- Leaves her to feel it’s acceptable
- Seems like I don’t even care to acknowledge it or apologize
- Let alone work to stop from doing it
#Christina