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#Christina #Feelings - discussion 8/11/22
- Feeling really hurt
- Can be really unkind when I’m upset
- Doesn’t feel like there is room for her to make mistakes in our relationship
- If she does make a mistake I go out of my way to make her feel as shitty as possible
- Let me know as soon as she was home she was sorry
- While trying to apologize the facial expressions I was making were upsetting
- Wasn’t trying to minimize on it just get me to look how she was being treated
- I was trying to show I cared but I wasn’t going to do it again - seemed cruel and defeating
- ESP if I’m saying I see how hard it’s been
- Why couldn’t she have been given a bit of grace?
- Was a shitty way to act
- Next morning trying to let her know how she felt while I was with Charlie
- Onus is on her to initiate the convo
- Wanted to be heard that she was hurt
- Something like “hey I fell asleep but would sure like what you have to say”
- Feels really shitty when she works so hard for our fam and things that she does for me to be thoughtful
- One mess up and no grace given