1.7 KiB
1.7 KiB
- Hurts her feels when blow up on her
- Don’t appreciate being blamed for decision I made
- Asked if I could cut the grass
- I could have said no
- Very agitated about it put headphones in and walked away
- Told I couldn’t hear then
- Said kids even noticed I’m hot
- No excuse for the way I treated her
Suggest different time She had not heard that
- Even if pushed to cut grass behaviour still isn’t acceptable
- It degrades her self worth when this happens
- Isn’t the first time it happens
- Blow up and it sucks for her
- Sad and unappreciated the last couple date nights planned by her
- Hoping to feel valued and special
- Wants to feel valued and worth while
- Struggling and feel insignificant
When she brings it up take a minute and step back. Not double down.
Could have said “hey sorry I’m a little hot and annoyed” - helped end fight sooner
Didn’t realize I was that frustrated until blow up happened
Was looking for ownership. Yeah that sucked I shouldn’t have done that I’m really sorry.
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- Been blowing up a lot on her and kids
- Keep an eye on it
- Feels crappy and she is worried
- Sucks enough for her but she is adult
- Understand I’m not feeling my best but affects the children
- Not fair to put that on them
- Worried about them starting their day like that
- Hectic in the morning and checkin to walk away
- How we plan morning and waking up earlier? Less hectic and rushed
- To help me??
- Look at what we need to do to fix this
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#Christina