1.2 KiB
1.2 KiB
- The reason she rolled her eyes when I was saying normally don’t freak out about things is because literally is what she was trying to say g to let me know what her experience is
- She can make a little mistake like saying she has space to come behind and get socks and be made to feel like complete garbage by body language and tone of voice
- That is her reality like I freak out for little things
- She was feeling particularly sensitive this morning with other emotional things going on so to have that response about her grabbing socks felt really bad
- She feels she did acknowledge what I was saying and said sorry for making me feel rushed. She was t wanting it to be contentious just grabbing socks and when she realized she didn’t have space backed up and waited
- Like she was saying in the bedroom the tone of voice or body language and how that makes people feel
- She felt dismissed when I said I normally don’t freak out because that’s what it feels like if something frustrates me
- She could use a little more patience and more kindness right now
Actions
- More patience when something happens I don’t like
- Try and understand where you are coming from before responding