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She is continuing to be hurt by the way I respond when frustrated
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I push aside what she is sharing instead of listening to what she is saying
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It’s a mind fuck for her to hug her and say I love her then at slightest bit of tension it goes out the window and treat her like shit
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In what’s happening with my mom right now she is aware how mom responds when frustrated or feels blamed and seeing same response in me and the kids Charlie especially
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The kids are paying attention to the way I treat her and impacts how the kids talk to each other and how Charlie responds to frustration
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What I pulled the other day about what Charlie had done for her and the coffee cup was unacceptable
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I robbed any joy from Charlie’s gesture from her
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Look into therapist
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Present best version of myself
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Kids mimicking my behaviour when responding to frustrations
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As soon as got in car Alice brought up how mom responded to Charlie crying
They were clearly upset by the thing mom did and was the first thing they said
Alice was upset by the way mom responded to Charlie
Alice knew it wasn’t ok Mom has to own it and do better for next time
#Christina