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  • Feels like mistakes she makes amplified by me
  • Makes her feel like she needs to be perfect
  • Try not to make me feel worse when mistakes happen and harp on them
  • Not same respect from me
  • Last night interrupting me she apologized many times
  • Doesnt feel acceptable to make a mistake
  • I brought it up 3 times after apologizing
  • Feels crappy and like Im going out of my way to make her feel bad
  • Makes it really crappy when things she works on arent acknowledged
  • Work on absolute negations
  • Been several times she has made a concerted effort to choose words carefully
  • Brought this up bc of me bringing up dealbreakers
  • She isnt perfect and does try and work on it
  • Need me to think of the way I treat her when she makes a mistake
  • How it would feel to be treated this way

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