#Christina - State of the Union 1/23/24

- [ ] Starting to feel really overwhelmed and resentful 
- [ ] Taken on a lot of extra things or remind me of things that are my responsibility 
- [ ] On top of that feel particularly seen or appreciate by me
- [ ] Would be nice in mornings more present
- [ ] Just sit on phone most of the morning
- [ ] After she wakes me up
- [ ] Puts all burden on her
- [ ] Other household stuff
- [ ] - Litter every morning
- [ ] - Pizza days
- [ ] - Laundry & starting loads
- [ ] - kids shower routine
- [ ] - dish washer clean and empty it
- [ ] - more present with kids in the morning
- [ ] - driveway to shovel off

- [ ] Have fallen to her so far to do
- [ ] Or have asked and they aren’t done so it’s frustrating 

- [ ] If we can make more of an effort into date nights 
- [ ] Makes it harder when there is friction on us to have nothing to fall back on
- [ ] I said I was planning last date night
- [ ] Once a month alternate
- [ ] Keep things feeling more connected