#Christina #Feelings - - [ ] Feeling really over burned and unappreciated right now - [ ] Taken on the kids birthday gifts, party, lawn care as well as all household responsibilities - [ ] Feels like efforts in this have been unnoticed - [ ] Askin for help and being more present but not feeling like I’m doing that - [ ] Leading to her feeling burnt out not getting enough support - [ ] Really hurt last night joking it was her turn to plan for date night bc I booked tickets and paid for dinner - [ ] Already feel like she is drowning in responsibilities - [ ] So to not get credit for things she had done was very upsetting - [ ] Would have felt so good to hear thanks for planning this date night or something. About it was awesome - [ ] Or say I enjoyed the time with her - [ ] So what I thought was a joke was a crippling burden to her - [ ] Which then leads into me saying I feel envious of her ability to remember things - [ ] Makes her think I don’t understand how much she carries