- [ ] Feel frustrated when she was interrupted when she tried to talk to me in the car
- [ ] It’s very difficult to have a conversation with me when it starts with her being interrupted
- [ ] She feels angry that she was asked not to do something that she had not done
- [ ] She feels unimportant based on number of times she is interrupted when talking
- [ ] Or when she is in the middle of something
- [ ] It feels like a frustrating double standard that i am very upset when it happens to me but on the flip side it is done to her frequently 
- [ ] And often she ends up stopping what she is doing to be able to listen to me
- [ ] She is feeling very sad she was interrupted multiple times at Starbucks
- [ ] She doesn’t feel she was respected when she said she could not listen to my feelings at Starbucks 
- [ ] Overall the convo in the mall was not respectful 
- [ ] It was hurtful the way I talked to her and apologized for how something seemed to her
- [ ] In the apology noted I had not gotten any apologies 
- [ ] The way she was talked to at the mall had her feeling like garbage
- [ ] My tone of voice was hurtful and triggering for her
- [ ] She feels embarrassed that she often cries in public because she feels so shitty in interactions with me

Actions
- [ ] End interactions sooner calling for a break when possible

If I was really sorry I would have been interested in hearing what it was that actually was the problem for her

My apology and what came after left her worse than original and unable to breath in public 

Left her feeling like such shit

She had said on the escalators she needed a break and she wishes that had been respected