#Christina #Feelings - 4/17/24

- [ ] Really hurt her feelings and stuck with her about comment she said that I hated her
- [ ] Hate is a very strong word and hard to hear from your spouse
- [ ] Not that I hated what you did but her
- [ ] Secondly she felt threatened by me
- [ ] The words I chose to use were inherently threatening
- [ ] When I say
- [ ] I don’t think you want to continue down this path
- [ ] Hold her responsible for how I’m going to act
- [ ] Victim blaming if I’m upset and lash out she is at fault
- [ ] Should be understood we are both responsible when upset
- [ ] Don’t want them said going forward
- [ ] How it was perceived