- [ ] Derek

- [ ] Biggest issue sis as a family and a group people talking behind his back
- [ ] Getting spread and not in a productive manner
- [ ] Makes it feel like Erin is still in the picture
- [ ] He is fed up with it
- [ ] Another thing is he feels like a lot of those things are said about him and they are mainly negative
- [ ] He works a lot to provide for his family and 
- [ ] Feel slighted because he has done a lot of work on himself over the last 6-10 months
- [ ] Derek feels like he has been put into a rigid box by us and our family 
- [ ] Allow us to see the personal growth and know that he is still working on it
- [ ] Some other family messages 
- [ ] Derek has been reasonable compared to his past self 
- [ ] Very little acceptance from new behaviours 
- [ ] It came to a head and contributing in a meaningful way but it was shut down
- [ ] When Kane starts acting out towards Derek it’s not acceptable
- [ ] When he has issues with people it won’t filter down to Kane
- [ ] Won’t be there for us turning Kane against us
- [ ] Got to the point that Kane would not let Derek do anything (shoes, food)
- [ ] Puts a lot on Abby if Derek is unable to help out
- [ ] Resentment towards Derek because of this
- [ ] Christmas dinner at Brian’s. Derek had full hands Derek asked for something