#Christina #Feelings

- [ ] Need blame in her to stop
- [ ] Not her fault I don’t ask for time or space to share feelings
- [ ] Have equal access to those timeframes 
- [ ] Don’t appreciate throwing in her face it’s not equal when I’m not asking for time and space
- [ ] Was really upsetting blaming her for not writing down stuff on phone
- [ ] Asked if I had time to listen to her feelings so it’s on me to manage what I need to be successful
- [ ] Unfair for blame to be pushed on her for choices I make
- [ ] Don’t feel it’s gaslighting or pushing agenda forward to persist on things she needs from me
- [ ] Trying to let me know how I’m choosing to interact is hurting her
- [ ] Can’t get over it and need it to be attended to
- [ ] Asking for what she needs from relationship
- [ ] Asking to attend to things she needs
- [ ] Was really hurtful when I said don’t hold your breath for an apology as I was upset too
- [ ] Those are two separate issues
- [ ] Me being upset about how she is talking to me and her sharing feelings can’t be negated
 
- [ ] Wants me to spend time moving forward about how I’m going to fix
- [ ] She is worth more than that