- [ ] The reason she rolled her eyes when I was saying normally don’t freak out about things is because literally is what she was trying to say g to let me know what her experience is
- [ ] She can make a little mistake like saying she has space to come behind and get socks and be made to feel like complete garbage by body language and tone of voice
- [ ] That is her reality like I freak out for little things
- [ ] She was feeling particularly sensitive this morning with other emotional things going on so to have that response about her grabbing socks felt really bad
- [ ] She feels she did acknowledge what I was saying and said sorry for making me feel rushed. She was t wanting it to be contentious just grabbing socks and when she realized she didn’t have space backed up and waited
- [ ] Like she was saying in the bedroom the tone of voice or body language and how that makes people feel
- [ ] She felt dismissed when I said I normally don’t freak out because that’s what it feels like if something frustrates me
- [ ] She could use a little more patience and more kindness right now


Actions 
- [ ] More patience when something happens I don’t like 
- [ ] Try and understand where you are coming from before responding