- [ ] How things went last night with Alice
- [ ] Want to save after school time as decompression time
- [ ] After school need time to relax
- [ ] Without demands of cleaning

- [ ] Few mornings ago
- [ ] Feels like it would have been an opportunity to have genuine understanding and remorse for the way I talk to her
- [ ] Interrupted so many times no longer wanted to talk
- [ ] Response to not want to talk was … great
- [ ] When asked to be mindful of words going forward as me saying great was tone deaf and upsetting in response she answered she just did t want to speak
- [ ] When she said that I said it was sarcastic and not tone deaf and that she were trying to share her feelings
- [ ] She was not just simply asking to be mindful of my words
- [ ] Often combat her when trying to bring something to my attention instead of trying to listen and make her feel heard

- [ ] Overall she is feeling really not great about way she been treated by me lately
- [ ] Last two weeks in particular have been really hard for her
- [ ] Been stressful with work and the kids birthdays and no appreciation or recognition 
- [ ] To top it off made her feel like garbage most times I talked to her
- [ ] When she needed me to build her up and support her I just made everything harder for her


#Christina