- Felt defensive by my wording
- could you wake me up earlier like I try to do for you
- Me telling her what I have done for her only makes her feel like she has done something wrong
- It could have been an appreciation of her waking me up
- And an ask of it being earlier going forward 
- She felt hopeless when she acknowledged what I said
- And offered a solution
- And the comment that followed yes anytime after 8 would be appreciated and. Now am really far behind
- She felt hopeless that she tried to speak plain 
- And let me know she was feeling blamed with how the conversation was going 
- She asked what more I was needing from the conversation
- She felt defeated in how the conversation played out after trying some of the things we had discussed
- She felt sad when I said multiple times I didn’t know why she was feeling blamed when she had told me why she was feeling that way
- Her cup is pretty empty right now with all that she has been giving to others
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Actions 

- Try and remember things we said we were going to do to hook into trying those sooner

  

Christina is feeling heard out and will stop taking notes