#Christina #Feelings -  discussion 8/11/22
- [ ] Feeling really hurt
- [ ] Can be really unkind when I’m upset
- [ ] Doesn’t feel like there is room for her to make mistakes in our relationship
- [ ] If she does make a mistake I go out of my way to make her feel as shitty as possible
- [ ] Let me know as soon as she was home she was sorry
- [ ] While trying to apologize the facial expressions I was making were upsetting
- [ ] Wasn’t trying to minimize on it just get me to look how she was being treated
- [ ] I was trying to show I cared but I wasn’t going to do it again - seemed cruel and defeating
- [ ] ESP if I’m saying I see how hard it’s been
- [ ] Why couldn’t she have been given a bit of grace?
- [ ] Was a shitty way to act
- [ ] Next morning trying to let her know how she felt while I was with Charlie
- [ ] Onus is on her to initiate the convo
- [ ] Wanted to be heard that she was hurt
- [ ] Something like “hey I fell asleep but would sure like what you have to say”
- [ ] Feels really shitty when she works so hard for our fam and things that she does for me to be thoughtful
- [ ] One mess up and no grace given