- [ ] Feels like mistakes she makes amplified by me - [ ] Makes her feel like she needs to be perfect - [ ] Try not to make me feel worse when mistakes happen and harp on them - [ ] Not same respect from me - [ ] Last night interrupting me she apologized many times - [ ] Doesn’t feel acceptable to make a mistake - [ ] I brought it up 3 times after apologizing - [ ] Feels crappy and like I’m going out of my way to make her feel bad - [ ] Makes it really crappy when things she works on aren’t acknowledged - [ ] Work on absolute negations - [ ] Been several times she has made a concerted effort to choose words carefully - [ ] Brought this up bc of me bringing up dealbreakers - [ ] She isn’t perfect and does try and work on it - [ ] Need me to think of the way I treat her when she makes a mistake - [ ] How it would feel to be treated this way #Christina