- mar 2 
	- asked what’s wrong
	- Explain my problems I’m having and gets deflected on how it’s actually this issue and she shares her feelings
	- Tell her my feelings are valid and need to be heard out as well then ask for a break
- Mar 3
	- Invited to shower with her and she washes me and proceeds to try and finish me
	- I make sure she is all good and let her know it probably won’t happen for me
	- Distracted from yesterday and over stimulated
	- She apologizes saying she was going to do this then apologize for the other day
	- Would have been nice to feel like my feelings were valued over my body.
	- This sequence of events lets my internal dialog reaffirm my feelings don’t matter