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- [ ] Feel sad at how negative the conversation in the car was towards her
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- [ ] Feel like she is drowning with how negative I can see her
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- [ ] No matter how much good she does she can be seen so negatively in an instant
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- [ ] She is angry that she was interrupted when I asked if she was ok
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- [ ] She was trying to answer in the context she was given
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- [ ] She feel disrespected by the response I gave her when she let me know she was just holding the handle
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- [ ] No acknowledgement of what she said just the response - when I am going around a corner at a speed you would deem unacceptable
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- [ ] She felt worthless and unloved in the car
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- [ ] Anything that she brought up had another layer of what she didn’t do or done differently
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- [ ] This morning her ask to have me listen felt unimportant
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- [ ] When I didn’t answer and instead asked my own question
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- [ ] She feel criticized that she sent a text asking if she could talk
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- [ ] She explained her reasoning and was given multiple reasons why that wasn’t ok
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- [ ] Eg we have previously stated texts are interrupting
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- [ ] But no acknowledgment of what she was sharing with me
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- [ ] During the conversation she asked again if I could listen now
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- [ ] I said yes and continued on with things we were talking about
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- [ ] Her asking if I could listen was an attempt to get back on track for the framework conversation she asked for twice
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- [ ] She feels sad and blamed by the way I spoke to her this morning
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- [ ] Feel unseen and unheard when I say I don’t know how the conversation got there but she started off by letting me know she felt criticized and no attention was given to that
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- [ ] She was attempting to let me know how my words were affecting her
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- [ ] And she gets the comment that I was already the schools punching bag and that I won’t be one in my own home
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- [ ] This was confusing to her and she feels it was not related to our conversation
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- [ ] This all leads to her feeling defeated and worthless
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- [ ] And then she has to pivot and show up for our kids
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- [ ] It’s exhausting and an unfair expectation
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Action items
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- [ ] Take a second to breath and then try and see things from your perspective
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- [ ] If she asks if I can listen and I say yes then do that otherwise say after this convo is done or no
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