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+- [ ] Felt really. Crappy yesterday interacting with me
+- [ ] Few things brought to attention that I didn’t fully attend to
+- [ ] One of them being mindful how things I saw come across as blaming her
+- [ ] Eg you trailed off while talking
+- [ ] Could just be could you repeat that for no blame
+- [ ] You were talking too quietly 
+- [ ] Could just be I didn’t hear you
+- [ ] Small changes that don’t make her feel blamed
+- [ ] Second thing
+- [ ] Need to stop saying I don’t believe it started out that way
+- [ ] When bringing something to her attention that is upsetting
+- [ ] Doesn’t matter how it started
+- [ ] Trying to tell me an experience she is having
+- [ ] At some point that deserves attention
+- [ ] Just because things were fine earlier doesn’t mean that she doesn’t have the right to be upset about something later
+- [ ] When I say that, it makes her feel like she is being bc blamed for what lead up to something happening
+- [ ] Or that I’m arguing that it shouldn’t matter what happened because earlier in the day was good
+- [ ] Overall, need me to stop and listen to what she is saying
+- [ ] It shouldn’t just be in feelings conversations and the framework that it gets turned around on her
+- [ ] I should be to talk to me and feel like I’m valuing and listening to the words I’m saying
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+- [ ] Really defeating she can’t bring something up to her
+- [ ] Makes her think I’m disinterested and don’t value what she is saying