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docs/projects/memorypalace/Apple Notes/Sept 14 2021 - convo feelings.md

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+- [ ] Hurts her feels when blow up on her
+- [ ] Don’t appreciate being blamed for decision I made
+- [ ] Asked if I could cut the grass
+- [ ] I could have said no
+- [ ] Very agitated about it put headphones in and walked away
+- [ ] Told I couldn’t hear then
+- [ ] Said kids even noticed I’m hot
+- [ ] No excuse for the way I treated her
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+Suggest different time
+She had not heard that
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+- [ ] Even if pushed to cut grass behaviour still isn’t acceptable
+- [ ] It degrades her self worth when this happens
+- [ ] Isn’t the first time it happens
+- [ ] Blow up and it sucks for her
+- [ ] Sad and unappreciated the last couple date nights planned by her
+- [ ] Hoping to feel valued and special
+- [ ] Wants to feel valued and worth while
+- [ ] Struggling and feel insignificant 
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+When she brings it up take a minute and step back. Not double down.
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+Could have said “hey sorry I’m a little hot and annoyed” - helped end fight sooner
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+Didn’t realize I was that frustrated until blow up happened
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+Was looking for ownership. Yeah that sucked I shouldn’t have done that I’m really sorry.
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+- [ ] Been blowing up a lot on her and kids
+- [ ] Keep an eye on it
+- [ ] Feels crappy and she is worried
+- [ ] Sucks enough for her but she is adult
+- [ ] Understand I’m not feeling my best but affects the children
+- [ ] Not fair to put that on them
+- [ ] Worried about them starting their day like that
+- [ ] Hectic in the morning and checkin to walk away
+- [ ] How we plan morning and waking up earlier? Less hectic and rushed
+- [ ] To help me??
+- [ ] Look at what we need to do to fix this
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+#Christina