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+Talking about July 8th and Friday Night
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+- [ ] Small thing saying 
+	- [ ] Unfortunate how week turned out
+		- [ ] Being tired
+		- [ ] All things going on
+		- [ ] Soccer games and practice
+		- [ ] Groceries
+		- [ ] Cast appointment
+- [ ] Wished acknowledged for how hard she works and what she does for our fam
+	- [ ] Instead got defensive and commented on how 
+	- [ ] Really hard to talk to about anything
+	- [ ] Think I look for what I do wrong and how I’m being blamed
+	- [ ] When asked if she remembered if I asked if I did anything she said no
+- [ ] Tried to let me know what I said made her feel blamed
+- [ ] Turned into what I didn’t do wrong instead of listening
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+Asked her why she was slamming doors and she took for an opportunity to share
+- [ ] Used I feel statements
+	- [ ] I used opportunity to deflect and said I was being villianized 
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+Need to be able to share feelings and thoughts with me
+Think about her before responding how I feel
+Don’t need to respond to how she is feeling just don’t make it worse by deflecting
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+Would have liked encouragement or listen and understand how she feels
+Exhausted
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+Tired from kids during the week.
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+Friday night:
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+Standing at office doors
+Commented I know you and I know how you react when things don’t go the way you want
+Seemed like I was referencing the call to the clinic
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+#Christina