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#Christina #Feelings - Talk 5/16/24
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- [ ] She would appreciate being able to ask questions without me blaming her
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- [ ] From earlier today
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- [ ] Sent points she thought pertinent to Alice’s doc apt
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- [ ] Was following up on those points
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- [ ] In no way was blaming me just looking for information on Alice’s medical info
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- [ ] Turned into her feeling blaming her by saying it wasn’t clear to me
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- [ ] Don’t appreciate the me telling her I gave her all the info and I had no secrets in what I was telling her
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- [ ] Doesn’t make me feel she can ask questions or follow up on questions that are important to know
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- [ ] She feels there continues to be a lot of statements made that make her feel blamed
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- [ ] For example today
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- [ ] Asked about follow up from questionnaire right away I pulled out phone and said she wasn’t clear
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- [ ] Feels like garbage trying to figure out information about Alice
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- [ ] I deflected saying she didn’t give any appreciation
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- [ ] Leads her to feel like she can’t feel free to ask me about important medical appointments she wasn’t a part of
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- [ ] Another time feeling blamed today
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- [ ] Me saying I was following an example she setup
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- [ ] She felt frustrated and let me know she could look at the way she talked to Alice and she could let me know that she would appreciate me waiting giving time to apologize
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- [ ] She doesn’t feel I acknowledged what she said and saying i was following your example
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- [ ] When she tried to bring it back to giving time and space I said she isn’t the main character and that she needed to back down and check how others are feeling
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- [ ] I needed break if she wouldn’t acknowledge what I shared
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- [ ] this leads to feel like what she brought up isn’t being addressed and then being blamed for why I did it and then being deflected on
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- [ ] She feels she was trying to get back to original point that didn’t get addressed
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- [ ] Feels really frustrating and upsetting to try and talk to me
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- [ ] She wants to feel like I’m listening g to and trying to understand what I’m saying l to me
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- [ ] She feels like things she says to me get misinterpreted and that I get defensive but all she is looking for is a little bit of understanding on how she is feeling
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#Christina #Feelings - discussion 8/11/22
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- [ ] Feeling really hurt
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- [ ] Can be really unkind when I’m upset
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- [ ] Doesn’t feel like there is room for her to make mistakes in our relationship
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- [ ] If she does make a mistake I go out of my way to make her feel as shitty as possible
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- [ ] Let me know as soon as she was home she was sorry
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- [ ] While trying to apologize the facial expressions I was making were upsetting
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- [ ] Wasn’t trying to minimize on it just get me to look how she was being treated
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- [ ] I was trying to show I cared but I wasn’t going to do it again - seemed cruel and defeating
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- [ ] ESP if I’m saying I see how hard it’s been
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- [ ] Why couldn’t she have been given a bit of grace?
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- [ ] Was a shitty way to act
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- [ ] Next morning trying to let her know how she felt while I was with Charlie
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- [ ] Onus is on her to initiate the convo
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- [ ] Wanted to be heard that she was hurt
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- [ ] Something like “hey I fell asleep but would sure like what you have to say”
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- [ ] Feels really shitty when she works so hard for our fam and things that she does for me to be thoughtful
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- [ ] One mess up and no grace given
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#Christina #Feelings - 2/9/24
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- [ ] Really disrespected from this morning
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- [ ] Interrupted her multiple times
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- [ ] Then when wasn’t ready to share what she said bc it was light hearted and funny
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- [ ] Took opportunity to talk about it later by asking the kids
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- [ ] On top of that not responding to her saying I interrupted you multiple times
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- [ ] I used a rude voice
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- [ ] Overall this morning really hurt her and made her feel like complete crap
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#Christina #Feelings - 3/20/24
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- [ ] Making facial expressions when talking to me
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- [ ] Tone of voice as well
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- [ ] Not addressing what I am saying before moving on
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- [ ] Brought up that it seems what I am saying is minimized and don’t feel it was addressed
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- [ ] Defensive when talking to her and her not waiting 5 seconds to answer
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